I do a lot of appliques on kids quilts. I use Heat and Bond Lite, usually with a blanket stitch over the raw edge and then quilt around the edges of the applique when I quilt the entire quilt. Because I sometimes do rather large appliques I quilt through them to highlight the details with no problem using FMQing. Washing them softens the stiffness.
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