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Old 06-19-2017, 09:10 AM
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If someone gives me something it is mine to do with what I want. They have no holds or terms of agreement in passing something on to another person.

I have a friend who used to do this all the time, As in "I'll give you this fabric but you have to promise to use it, and use this pattern too." That is not giving or gifting. That is a control issue. She doesn't control me any more.

Once I give something to someone, it is theirs to do with what they want.

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