I don't use a hoop either, just quilt in my lap. Been struggling with the weight/heat of the quilts and will sure give the TV Tray a try! As for pulling the needle through, I go to the pharmacy area at WalMart and buy Finger Cots. They are like getting just the tips from rubber gloves, they come in different sizes and are cheap. I use a thimble on one finger and a finger cot on the other. You can find them in the section with Band-aids and tape. I have not seen the pink thimble but would like to know the name of the vendor or where to purchase it. Guess I will do a search on ebay, too!