I am comfortable in my own skin. I was a stay at home Mom for twenty five years and loved it when DH was at work and kids in school. I love to be by nyself and even when DH is home watching TV or working outside I enjoy doing my own thing. We have worked together for the past 23 years and quite time is good. I also work with our 2 oldest kids. I plan on retiring in June and I will be home again, not really by myself, 4 cats & two dogs and my bird. They won't judge me as most people want to. I like myself and some people don't and I think that is why they have to be on the go. I like to say,"Misery loves company", I know I didn't invent that saying but, I like to use it. I have one really good friend and that is enough for me. I have all the friends on this board, who could ask for more? :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: