RST - I don't understand why you keep insinuating that people who compete are only happy about winning when they believe there are others who are lesser than themselves. Personal experience, maybe? There are a multitude of posts in this thread that answer your question, and yet you continue to ask it.
Since when did competition become bad? Are the Olympic games evil? What about businesses who compete for contracts? High school football games? If I win at Scrabble, should I not take any joy in my win because it might mean my vocabulary is larger than my opponent's?
My husband said "If she hates competition so much, why is she trying to hard to win this argument?"