First off, my prayers are with you for the loss of your brother. I, too, lost my oldest brother in '02 and some days are good and then some days are just there. When we lost my DH's BIL, I asked for some of his things that they were going to toss out. I rec'd jeans and shirts so I made rag quilts for his two sons and rag pillows for g'kids. I still have one more to make for DH's sister and I will get it done, just wanted to give a little more time before I give sis her's. Maybe a pic in the center and blocks around made from his things might work. Just give yourself time.