I try to remember to be grateful that:
food is available and we can afford to buy it
that our digestive systems are still working well
that we have a place to cook food
that we have a place to eat food
that we have running water to do clean up
But sometimes I forget and don't want to be bothered about cooking.
My immediate family is extremely easy to cook for. It's just that cooking is not one of those jobs like painting the house that only needs to be done every few years.