You all are so right on every level. I sent my quote to her last night. $10/hr. Plus cost of materials. I always get materials cost up front. No way am I getting stuck with that family or no. I also tell people that mending is just that, a mend, not a brand new quilt. I include specific care instructions for all things I make but even more so for repairs/mending. I already told her on day one, this will be a display only afterwards. It really can't ever be serviceable. Just admired.
You all helped to remind me that my time is valuable, even if it's family. She is a nanny and tutor, if I were to use her services, she would expect to get paid her regular wages. As she should. Thanks ladies!!