Terriamn, I've tried the dryer sheets and don't think they work very well. Have noticed that sheets for cleaning irons smell just like the Bounce sheets, and I wasn't happy with them either.
My biggest iron problems usually are from fusibles.
I took a class taught by the lady who invented misty-fuse, and she recommended Scotchbrite scrubbers, used dry. These are the pads that are sold separately, not attached to sponges. I've used those ever since and they've taken off every mess my iron has gotten into. They're good for non-stick pans and have never damaged my iron.