I am not a social butterfly either. I moved around a lot as a child, and every time I made a best friend, it was time to move again. So, soon I stopped making close friends and learned to be comfortable in my own skin. I am still that way, after almost 50 yrs of marriage, and 3 kids. I would rather stay at home and quilt or do computer time than almost anything else. I am not lonely; nor do I feel I am anti-social. I just enjoy my time, and since it is my time, I feel I can do with it as I please. And I please to quilt!