Ok ladyfriend, I can tell you did not read the entire first post! Just by your questions...
Please go back and read it and then sign up by pm, as it says in that post. When you pm me, confirm that you have read the post in it's entirety and that you agree with the rules. We are so glad to have you swapping this time!
I posted some additional info beyond the first post, so be sure to read the thread!
Looking forward to hearing from you.