Jaba, As has been said by others, don't stress out about the candy swap. Things can happen, in many different ways, to change what we can do throughout a year. If you cannot think about completing the swap, or your husband forgets to do a task for you, or whatever, it's absolutely okay with me. If you want, it's nice to hear if you are doing a little bit of sewing, or chatting about whatever, on this thread or that one, now and then, if you can manage it, or if not, that's okay. Take it easy, and do what you can to get well again.