Welcome Jodie: I am not too old here myself but have found it to be a very positive and helpful place. I started quilting about 2 years ago but have only finished 1 throw and 1 pillow. I have several others that I have worked for a time until I ran out of fabric or had a problem or got bored but I consider them all to be Works In Progress not Unfinished Objects (UFO's) As with every other trade or craft there is a separate language involved. Are you quilting?