OMG I hope you didnt lose sleep over this. Everyone has an opinion, everyone has a thought and everyone has the 'right' answer. In the end the only one it should matter to is you. I think its sweet of you to offer an apology but for me (and yes I had read the thread that brought this one on).. your over worrying... you didnt offend me. You asked a legit question and truth be told I would have bet money more would have gone for it than would openly admit. Everyone is righteous in print. Just know that you would have been still held by open arms regardless of your decision. No one of us is capable of casting judgement and owning that right (unless of course they were given papers upon birth stating this). Its between you and yours.