Hi, Thank you for reply! Totally agree, We must prepare them when they are young for the world out there and let them fly on their own, or they will never learn to "fly." Once we learn as parents, they are now grown, married, and they are their children not our children (grandchildren) its funny how they don't mind asking for advice when they know you are a unit and they are a unit or family and you respect each other. Thank you.