Yes, I too am the same way. I like everything to be just right. I will want to take something apart and my husband and friend will tell me that I need to get over it and it wouldn't be special if it wasn't handmade with a flaw or two.
I am trying not to be too picky with my work. But I have only been quilting for little over 3 years now and I'm not the perfectionist yet. I am still learning. Would love one day to enter something in a fair that would be exciting for me.