Thank heaven he made it and is home recovering. Snapping at each other? You surely know the stress of this entire situation. Snapping is nothing! Its a blessing. The fact you can snap is reason to say a prayer of thanks. Nicotine seems to be one horrible addiction to end. Dropping this AND trying ot eat healthier, lose some weight (most people gain weight when they quit smoking) and not feeling generally perky would make anyone snappy. I have lived with two smokers in my lifetime and watching the withdrawals I know how tough it is on them. Its not just the nicotine I think but maybe the hand to mouth habit too? Bless you for standing right beside him and attacking this together Only good things can come from this. a very good cookbook Diet for a healthy heart .. you could probably check it out from a library? There are dozens of them. A lot of the food? Tastes pretty darned good. Best of luck and our prayers will be with you.