Can't think of anything I really want that can be purchased at a store.
It did take me a ridiculously long time to figure out that it was okay - practical - smart - to actually make a detailed, very specific, wish list for something I wanted. Also include approximate prices and where it can be purchased/obtained.
For example: I wanted a manual Hiker Grommet Press with a #1 die and nickel, brass, and black grommets.
How would anyone know I wanted that without being told?
Not many stores in my area have them available at 11:30 PM on Christmas eve.
I did get money to apply to that purchase!
At one time, my thinking was "If 'they" love me, 'they' will know what I want.
Well, if I did not know exactly what 'they' might want - it finally dawned on me that 'they' might not know exatly what I might want.
I do kind of want to get the size 0 die and grommets to go with it, but I haven't really used the grommet press all that much - but I am happy to have it
PS - If money is in short supply, be reasonable /sensible- both in what one wants - and in what one can spend on others.
PPS - I do like to get something that is not on the list that shows thoughtfulness on the part of the giver.
Example: A drawing of my cat that could be framed.
Not so appreciated: a coffee maker when I do not drink coffee.
Last edited by bearisgray; 11-20-2019 at 07:14 AM.