Barb I am so glad he is ok and home again! I do understand the stress and especially the waiting to see what will happen in the hospital. My DH had a head injury in 77 that we didn't know if he would live or die for a week. It is so stressful that it is hard to be upbeat. I try to remember when we are snapping that I am just so grateful he is here to snap at me! I have had to learn to bite my tongue and let things go but it is hard to do and I have never smoked. So that isn't an issue for us. But it will get better! I so sympathize! I hope things get better each and every day!
Keeping you in my prayers!!