This is what I was going to suggest. A registry will give you many clues. How old is she? My own daughter says quilts aren’t her thing so I won’t bother. I made quilts for my grandtwins but made blue instead of green for the boy (made to coordinate with the focus fabric used for both babies) and have never seen the quilt used(nursery is green and pink. So that hurts, to be honest. Another daughter-in-law only decorates in aqua, mint, grey and white, so I wouldn’t give anything but. These are people I know well, and I am walking on eggshells about quilt choices. I’d be reluctant to invest such effort to someone I didn’t know as well. Maybe a pair of monogrammed, neutral Throw pillows that They could put on their sofa or bed, and then something from their registry?