I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. It is hard enough trying to quit smoking when things are all well, but it is especially difficult when you have to quit and didn't really want to. I had to have a pacemaker and had to quit in the hospital. My husband quit also, and it was hard not to snap at each other, especially when we were going through all the hospital and heart stuff. You will both be ok and things will get better. Just take good care of each other.