I just want to thank everyone so very very much! I love this forum and the people here :) Huggy and i are doing MUCH better now. You know, ive tried to quit smoking several times in the last year, and each time it was too hard for me. Well for some reason, this is hard to believe, neither hubby or i have had one craving for a smoke this whole time, not one, and i cant believe it. The only thing i can think, is that smoking almost killed my husband, so i have absolutely no desire or cravings for a smoke at all. I think the edgyness that we were having, was us both worrying about him, and our worrying was coming through as snapping at each other. A lot to worry about, especially what can he eat now. But we've made several trips to the store, and found a lot of things marked low fat and low sodium, so we are now discovering a NEW normal for us, and things are settling down. Thank you each of you for your kind thoughts and prayers. I think we're doing really good now :)