I only make quilts to be used and loved. Once I give them away, it it up to the owner to decide how it will be used.
Many years ago, I made a lovely log cabin quilt for a relative. I was surprised when, after receiving the quilt, relative said , in effect, "Thank you, but quilts aren't really my thing", then promptly donated to her church's auction. I was upset for a while, but then decided that it was her quilt, and she could do as she chose.
Since then, I do not stress over what happens to it after I finish.