The rare beauties that I have are antique quilts that I have collected over the years. They really are stunning and I love them but don't use them. They are for display only. One is from the 1800's in amazing condition. I'd love to use it but am afraid my cats may ruin it.
The quilts I make are a different story. Since my granddaughter was born I've made her 3 and they are small and sturdy for repeated washings. Mostly though, I make a quilt large enough for snuggling (usually twin or larger). I don't really like lap size quilts.
Right now I'm making her one for when she's older. And I have another one in line for when that one is done lol
My boys appreciate quilts and I have no doubt they will keep the ones I mentioned in the first paragraph.
As for the quilts I make family members- I don't stress about them once they're gifted. But honestly, I haven't had a family
member who didn't appreciate them. I like to make what I know they'll like, i.e. colors, etc.