Oh sweetie, quilts are the last thing to deal with right now. Take your time to say goodbye and to take care of yourself. I will not be doing anything with my top until February.
I'm having background personal issues regarding my mother who has also been hospitalized but not from Covid. It's so hard for me. We've had a terrible relationship mostly because she was a terrible mother. She has a personality disorder and is not normal and it was a hard childhood, but I've had to deal with it all my life. I am just amazed how hard it is still grieving for the mother I never had, that she will be soon gone. It breaks my heart that so many things will be left unresolved, but I have to accept that it is best that I continue to stay away.