The most useful gift I like to get is a well made potholder that won't let the heat through. I know they are not exciting. I use a busy print or batik so stains won't be so noticeable over time. I put Insulbrite between two layers of cotton batting. When I see thin silicone trivets at discount stores I buy those and cut to fit instead of the insulbrite. A kitchen is no place for a lousy potholder.