Welcome to the QB. I too am sorry you are having trouble with your quilt. Iceblossom gave you great advice and as she said there is no turning back. I personally like the 'wrinkly' look of after washing a quilt. If I am making a wall hanging I do not wash it as I want the smooth lines of the fabric. Hind sight doesn't help you with your quilt but I hope you are successful in some restoration of your quilt. Again welcome to the QB.