We're supposed to finish them??? I didn't get that memo!! :D
Seriously, I take forever. I have a million other things in my life so I don't dedicate nearly as much time to sewing as others on the board. But even when I do sew, I am not speedy. I have to rush through the rest of my life - I sew at the pace I want and believe me, it's slow. Don't worry about how long it takes you; it's not a competition.
Focus on this: Do you enjoy the time spent creating a quilt? Is it satisfying a part of you that nothing else does? If so, nothing else matters. So take forever - no one is keeping score.