I think the most irritating part is when they check off every "scratched, dented, chipped, etc" box they can, which then releases them from liabiity as to condition on arrival.
Or, throwing long things like rakes or poles in the underneath compartment of the van and then asking if any of it's yours. Like you really can immediately think of what you have like that while people are marching past you with your boxes.
I'm with Tallchick on this one. Drive the stuff you really care about and either send the rest with a mover or replace it on arrival.
charlotte