NZQuilter, your little nest is growing fast and I wouldn't take on any extra obligations, either. Just rest and get ready for your little girl and boy to be born! Please drop in and chat in all the threads you have been active in, and keep us up to date on what you and your sweet family are doing.
My daughter is having a C section mid January, too. She's having a boy too! This pregnancy is really taking a toll on her back, or maybe caring for her 3YO while pregnant is taking the toll on her back. While there recently, grandpa and I kept little Ivy for several days, and Audrey's back pain improved!
Best wishes to you in your double pregnancy!