I prefer to give my quilts to the less fortunate such as women in shelters and Project Linus...they all seem to be the ones that appreciate them. My grandkids and my oldest son do use their quilts. At least I've seen photo's of them using the quilts on their beds. The middle son uses his wildlife throw on his recliner.
Quilting is a very expensive hobby to have. Until someone has to go out and buy all the needed supplies they have no idea what it cost or the process to make a completed quilt. I suggest finding an organization to donate to. You'd be surprised how it makes you feel. I'll never stop giving to these needy organizations...if not quilts them pillow cases made from the left over yardage.