My hubby doesn't do alot of cooking, but he's just uber messy with anything he does and drives me nuts. My son is following in his Dad's footsteps, throwing all my years for training under the bus.
Guess I'm hard, but I was raised, do it all the way or don't do it all, so when it comes to making dinner, good clean up is part of the package.
I've reluctantly resigned myself to accepting that dinner leftovers get put away and I'm left with the aftermath, even if the kitchen was totally clean as dinner was served (I clean as I go). GGGgggrrrrrr.