Doing my best and doing your best will forever be two totally different things, yet neither side has the authority to set the standard for the other or for others.
Most cannot tell what, when or why things overwhelm them to the point of being reduced to just breathing to get thru the day anymore than someone who doesn't have these challenges can give an accurate dissertation on how to get to the moon.
It's heart wrenching to see the seemingly endless parade of maladies and afflictions that humankind has inherited, why do we want to individually add to that burden?
While I acknowledge the medical field generally does over medicate, it's also not an exact science and doctors do what they can with how they've trained and what they've learned in their practices.