I also was married twice before, my first Hubby passed when April was 11 months and Tara was 5yrs. I married on a rebound and he was a jerk for sure, thank I met the man who won my heart forever, Richard, we met at Dunkin- he has been a wonderful father to his, mine & ours, he has three kids, I had two and we have a almost 23 year old son together, spoiled rotten, just ask Ape!!! We've been together for 24 years.