We also met at church; I had just turned 40, divorced, exploring the fact that I had realized newfound feelings. She was 37, single for a while after a bad breakup. We introduced ourselves and she tells everbody I wouldn't let go of her hand (she didn't pull away!!!). We had a Holy Union the following December, 1986; Florida still doesn't recognize same-sex marriage but nonetheless, we are more married than others married legally. We have had lots of fun, lots of chaos, 2 kids, one grand, 3 greats, and we still are in love after all this time. There, I said it again....