At the back fence.
O.k. let me explain.
We were each married and moved in next to each other the same month. We all introduced ourselves, from the start his wife and I didn't become friends, even with our kids being about the same age!
Some years later my marriage failed (spousal abuse) and I moved out on my own to a neighboring town, went back to college and got a better job.
Then I saw him - again-. 4 years after I had moved away. He told me he and his wife were getting a divorce. I nearly fell on the ground. I never thought they'd be in that boat.
Anyway, I told him if he wanted to talk or aa home cooked meal to give me a call.
About a year later we were together, but not married. 7 years later we married. 6 years later we divorced.(He will be the first to tell anyone that he was 'stupid' and left). He moved to another state, I moved to another town. 5 years after that we reconnected. and then remarried a year later.
We are about to celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary, or is it our 11th? Or do we celebrate from when we first got together - 24 years ago? (We originally met 32 years ago!)
True love will find you - no matter what you are doing, going through, waiting for, and usually hit you when you are not looking.
Congrats to all those who have found their mate, and to those who have not..... God has a plan.