I met my hubby when I was 19 and he was 20. We were both married to other people. Here's where it gets confusing so try to stay with me...my ex (K) and my hubby (A) have the same cousins...K's uncle was married to A's aunt. Anyway the 4 of us were friends then A's wife left him. He moved back to their hometown and we followed a few years later. By that time A had remarried and we were friends w/them...they split up...I was still married. A went in and out of relationships and trouble for a good number of years then after 21 yrs of marriage K cheated on my with an online romance. We split up and A heard about it through his family. He called to check on me and after several months we started seeing each other...talk about wierd! We dated for 3 yrs and then got engaged for almost 1 yr. We will be married 6 yrs on May 1st. He is the best thing that I could ever dream of. When I was going through my divorce I prayed a lot about dating and being nervous about it since I'd gotten married the 1st time at 18...well God took care of that by giving me A! I have 2 sons and he has 1 son in heaven and 1 daughter. Together we have 4 granddaughters and 1 grandson. We also have 1 granddaughter by love rather than blood...we have been truly blessed.