Big Lesson Learned
#34

I know how you feel-just had this exact thing happen with me last week with my mother who has always been a chaos creator and with my grandparents whom I have always looked up to and adored. They said some really hateful things to me that were extremely hurtful. I never expected my grandparents to feed into her drama and be like that.
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I know it hurts. Sometimes what comes out of my mouth comes across very differently than what I meant to say. I think my mother-in-law is still mad at me. I was telling her that I told my new son-in-law that he should be happy they live a few hours away. Family is nice but having your mother-in-law (I was referring to myself) too close might be more than he wanted. She got really upset and asked if I really felt that way about mother-in-laws. (Well, yes, but I was trying to get him to understand that moving away from family can be a good thing. Of course, I don't want to live really close to my Mother either.)
I hope you get a resolution. Sometimes just giving yourself a little time to let it out, eat some great chocolate, and read a book will help a lot.
I hope you get a resolution. Sometimes just giving yourself a little time to let it out, eat some great chocolate, and read a book will help a lot.
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