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Old 02-11-2011, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted by IrishNY
You could just let there be a long pause and then change the subject
This is pretty much what I do. Been married for 8 years, so we had our conversations about boundries a LONG time ago. I am very different than what they are used to.

If its a topic that is not open for discussion, I change the subject. It is none of their business. They havn't given me any snide remarks in awhile so this was just "wow, where did that come from?!"
The funny thing is, she started the conversation telling me about a quilting project she is taking on.
REally it just makes me chuckle.
Smile and Wave. :roll:
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Old 02-12-2011, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted by IrishNY
You could just let there be a long pause and then change the subject
This is pretty much what I do. Been married for 8 years, so we had our conversations about boundries a LONG time ago. I am very different than what they are used to.

If its a topic that is not open for discussion, I change the subject. It is none of their business. They havn't given me any snide remarks in awhile so this was just "wow, where did that come from?!"
The funny thing is, she started the conversation telling me about a quilting project she is taking on.
REally it just makes me chuckle.
Smile and Wave. :roll:
I just noticed you're in Clarksville, TN. You're the first Clarksville lady I've found on here. DH's cousin lives there but she's not on here. Usually most people have no idea where Clarksville is.
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Well, Im not the only one! On my intro post, a lady in town sent me a "hello!", she just started a beginers quilt class at our local hancocks.
Clarksville is huge, because of the post. But nobody seems to know where it is at. I usually just say we are an hour north of nashville.
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all work and no play makes for a dull life! Everyone needs some time to do what they like, not what has to be done. Enjoy your quilting, guilt free.
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Old 02-12-2011, 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted by CloverPatch
Well, Im not the only one! On my intro post, a lady in town sent me a "hello!", she just started a beginers quilt class at our local hancocks.
Clarksville is huge, because of the post. But nobody seems to know where it is at. I usually just say we are an hour north of nashville.
That would esplain why DH's cousin is always posting on FB about Nashville malls and flea markets. She tried quilting for a few weeks but gave up and gave it to her mom, I believe to finish it, so I knew this post couldn't have been from her, though her MIL sometimes gives her a hard time. :?

But, because of where we've been with in-laws, I think it helps us to remember what we've been through when we become the in-laws, ourselves. I'm not old enough to have son-in-laws yet but I'm the oldest sibling in our family and 3 of my younger siblings are married now and I try to bless them with as much compassion and love and grace as I can. God wastes nothing so when he presents us with trying times, we can certainly turn it around for good. :-)
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I'm glad you can take her remark with a grain of salt. Be glad she doesn't live next door!! :lol:
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Old 02-12-2011, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Ditter43
I'm glad you can take her remark with a grain of salt. Be glad she doesn't live next door!! :lol:
Oh, they mean well. Im 32 my parents are deceased, so it is kinda nice to be "mothered", But Yea, soooo glad they don't live next door. Oh my goodness, Id get worked to death!
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ah ha a 'shine it on' moment
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Originally Posted by thequilteddove
ah ha a 'shine it on' moment
??? I don't get it.
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Originally Posted by IrishNY
You could just let there be a long pause and then change the subject

or

ask why she thinks it's ok to talk to you like a little kid.

Sheesh!
The long pause was my favorite. :roll:
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