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notmorecraft 10-02-2015 09:34 AM

I don't think the quilts pick up emotions, but if I'm not in a very good frame of mind, it affects my sewing and I don't do my best, x

toverly 10-02-2015 10:54 AM

I don't think they pick up emotions but if I am sad or angry, they are awfully hard to complete and just aren't fun to make.

ShirlR 10-02-2015 11:06 AM


Originally Posted by Billi (Post 7333783)
No I don't think so,

I sometimes choose fabrics or patterns based on my mood or current circumstances and the overall composition of my project reflects that much like a canvas painting reflects a mood or feeling of the artist.

To me the words "made with love or lovingly made" when we see a quilt that we do not know the history of reflects the craftsmanship of straight seams and perfect points, maybe a creative quilting motif. When its used because I made it for a friend or family member they know I love them and it's about that I took the time to make something for them. The love and caring and someone feels when wrapping themselves in that home made quilt is more about the known feeling for the giver not the fabric passing it along.

Good explanation of why those phrases are used. My feelings exactly. Thanks.

ShirlR 10-02-2015 11:15 AM


Originally Posted by Sewnoma (Post 7333814)
No, I don't think so - I think it's a superstition, but a harmless one and a sort of fun one. I like to say that "my quilts are hugs trapped in fabric" but that's just an expression.

But, even though I'm certain it makes no difference whatsoever, I still talk to inanimate objects and try to pour good feelings into anything I'm making (food, quilts, art...). It makes ME feel happy and lighthearted to do these silly things, so I don't really care if it's all in my imagination. I pat my machines on the "head" and tell them they're good and beautiful all the time...it doesn't bother them any either way so I figure no harm, no foul. :)

My father once told me I don't have a choice about growing old but I DO have a choice about growing UP. I think there is real value in retaining some types of childishness, and this is one of the "childish" things I've held onto. I hum along with the vacuum cleaner because it works better when it feels like it's part of a team, I tell the timer "I'M COMING!!!" when it goes off so it won't get impatient, and when my car is acting up I pat her on the dashboard and reassure her that she's a good car and we'll get through this together.

Ohh, how sweet! I love your post! You sound like a person I'd like to have as a next-door neighbor!

mike'sgirl 10-02-2015 12:13 PM


Originally Posted by Sewnoma (Post 7333814)
No, I don't think so - I think it's a superstition, but a harmless one and a sort of fun one. I like to say that "my quilts are hugs trapped in fabric" but that's just an expression.l

But, even though I'm certain it makes no difference whatsoever, I still talk to inanimate objects and try to pour good feelings into anything I'm making (food, quilts, art...). It makes ME feel happy and lighthearted to do these silly things, so I don't really care if it's all in my imagination. I pat my machines on the "head" and tell them they're good and beautiful all the time...it doesn't bother them any either way so I figure no harm, no foul. :)

My father once told me I don't have a choice about growing old but I DO have a choice about growing UP. I think there is real value in retaining some types of childishness, and this is one of the "childish" things I've held onto. I hum along with the vacuum cleaner because it works better when it feels like it's part of a team, I tell the timer "I'M COMING!!!" when it goes off so it won't get impatient, and when my car is acting up I pat her on the dashboard and reassure her that she's a good car and we'll get through this together.

You sound like a fun person. 😁

mike'sgirl 10-02-2015 12:16 PM

I don't think inanimate objects hold onto bad or good feelings but I don't like to hold onto things given to me by someone who has bad feelings towards me.

Example: my ex mother in law gave me a bathrobe the Christmas before her son and I broke up. I knew she had malicious feelings for me. I got rid of it.

Latrinka 10-02-2015 04:01 PM

I don't know either, but I did make a biscuit quilt that helped me through a really rough time dealing with a lot of anxiety, pretty much kept me from ripping my face off. So I hope that the quilt itself didn't absorb these feelings or else it will just explode! And that would be ashamed, because the quilt came out soooooo freaking cute!

suern3 10-03-2015 02:54 PM

Well, I guess sometimes I just enjoy a little light-hearted, "magical" thinking.

BETTY62 10-04-2015 06:56 PM

Maybe not, but I try to stay real positive when working on a project just in case. LOL

DivaDee 10-04-2015 08:55 PM


Originally Posted by quiltingcandy (Post 7333435)
I am one of those people that have extra electricity in my body - I know it sounds crazy, but it is true. And If I am upset my body has a tendency to cause other items that draw electricity to short circuit, I can't even use a phone. So I would be afraid to use my machines, even if I was trying to calm myself. I don't think fabric will hold on to the negative, but when I make my quilts I do it to feel good. Sometimes they don't come out the way I hope but my intentions are there.

I can wear a watch for about a week and then it stops. This goes for wind up watches and digital watches, expensive watches and cheap ones. No one can explain why.


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