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We split my grandmas ashes, The BIG urn went down stairs to my grandfather, it now sits in my ungrateful aunts bedroom covered in what is on her dresser. I post about her in my diary thread thing... We have a small urn sitting in our kitchen in this big window that we keep a lot of her collected Elephants, sort of like a shrine to my grandma.
We used to have my grandmothers urn in the living room but our cats kept trying to get it... they just wouldn't leave it alone. One day my Abuella (step grandmother, step dad is from mexico and she said we could call her abuella, well she told Jorge we could...) said that the cats are trying to tell us something about the urn, so I'm like mom, Grandma liked to be in teh kitchen all the time why not move her there. So we did, and the cats NEVER bothered the urn again. |
Originally Posted by Panther Creek Quilting
Hopefully this provides some comfort:
To Those I Love & Leave Behind When I am gone, release me, let me go. I have so many things to see and do. You must not tie yourself to me with tears. Be happy that we had so many years. I gave you my love. You can only guess how much you gave me in happiness. But now it's time I traveled on alone. So grieve a while for me if grieve you must, then let your grief be comforted by trust. It's only for a while that we must part. So bless the memories within your heart. I won't be far away, and life goes on. So if you need me, call and I will come. Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near and if you listen with your heart, you'll hear all of my love around you soft and clear. And then when you must come the way alone, I'll greet you with a smile and say, "Welcome Home"..... Hope this provides you and your family comfort in these extremely difficult times. Prayers to God that he helps you through and keeps you and your family in the palm of his hand. Hugs- Sheila |
Cajun: That poem is awesome. Thank you so much, Gwyn
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Originally Posted by Gwyn
Cajun: That poem is awesome. Thank you so much, Gwyn
WIsh I could take credit but it is by Panther Creek and yes it is awesome |
I loved the poem.
Made me think of what my father said shortly before he died in 1979, "If you can't remember me in laughter, don't remember me at all". Not sure if he was the one who came up with that or not, it could be from a western or someone else he admired over the years. But I still remember and laugh. I even had a recording of his voice --- on a cassette of all things, but it's voice. We have no video, lots of pics too. I wrote a poem about him a few years later that focused on the memories I had of him while I was growing up. Prayers and thoughts to you Gwyn and to your family. |
Originally Posted by QuiltingGrannie
I loved the poem.
Made me think of what my father said shortly before he died in 1979, "If you can't remember me in laughter, don't remember me at all". Not sure if he was the one who came up with that or not, it could be from a western or someone else he admired over the years. But I still remember and laugh. I even had a recording of his voice --- on a cassette of all things, but it's voice. We have no video, lots of pics too. I wrote a poem about him a few years later that focused on the memories I had of him while I was growing up. Prayers and thoughts to you Gwyn and to your family. Remember me with smiles and laughter for that is how I will remember you all. If you can only remember me with tears don't remember me at all. It was from Little House, Patricia Neal played a widow Julie Sanderson, with 3 children. She knew she was dying from cancer and asked Charles to find homes for her children one was named Alichia. The widow Sanderson wrote that for the Rev to read at her church service. It was a 2 part episode and there was new puppies involved and in the end Mr Edwards gets married so that he could adopt the children. And they live happily ever after. That was probably my favorite episode. |
We both have told our kids and oldest Granddaughter that we want immediate cremation, don't waste money on a funeral for us, I have no family left and DH doesn't want a funeral. It is way too expensive and a waste of money that may be better spent another way. Who knows if they will do what we want, but, they know.
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Originally Posted by Jingleberry
We both have told our kids and oldest Granddaughter that we want immediate cremation, don't waste money on a funeral for us, I have no family left and DH doesn't want a funeral. It is way too expensive and a waste of money that may be better spent another way. Who knows if they will do what we want, but, they know.
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Originally Posted by Jingleberry
We both have told our kids and oldest Granddaughter that we want immediate cremation, don't waste money on a funeral for us, I have no family left and DH doesn't want a funeral. It is way too expensive and a waste of money that may be better spent another way. Who knows if they will do what we want, but, they know.
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Originally Posted by trupeach1
Originally Posted by QuiltingGrannie
I loved the poem.
Made me think of what my father said shortly before he died in 1979, "If you can't remember me in laughter, don't remember me at all". Not sure if he was the one who came up with that or not, it could be from a western or someone else he admired over the years. But I still remember and laugh. I even had a recording of his voice --- on a cassette of all things, but it's voice. We have no video, lots of pics too. I wrote a poem about him a few years later that focused on the memories I had of him while I was growing up. Prayers and thoughts to you Gwyn and to your family. Remember me with smiles and laughter for that is how I will remember you all. If you can only remember me with tears don't remember me at all. It was from Little House, Patricia Neal played a widow Julie Sanderson, with 3 children. She knew she was dying from cancer and asked Charles to find homes for her children one was named Alichia. The widow Sanderson wrote that for the Rev to read at her church service. It was a 2 part episode and there was new puppies involved and in the end Mr Edwards gets married so that he could adopt the children. And they live happily ever after. That was probably my favorite episode. |
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