Thoughts on sending fruit for a funeral rather than flowers
#63
My friend, whose brother was a suicide, received a basket from another friend that had tea bags, Tums, packages of plain cookies. fresh fruit and other various items like eye drops etc. It was so appreciated.
#65
I don't know about fruit, as they can so stale so quickly and would someone really like to get them when they are so sad. When a very beloved customer of my hotel died the customers said they would do a whip round and send a wreath, and I said please don't. The widow was distraught has her husband was so loved by all and there was a huge funeral and of course everyone visited her to give her tea and sympathy. So I asked the customers to put in however little or much in little envelopes that I had and when I visited her I said when she found things a bit tough to look in the kitchen drawer I had put the envelopes in. Months later when she felt up to visiting us she said she could not believe how valuable those envelopes where as her Milk/Tea/Biscuits water and electricity consumption had soured and they paid the milkman and helped towards the other costs as well, she was so grateful. Yes the funerals was lovely with heaps n heaps of flowers so our little wreath wasn't missed.
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I really love all these wonderful ideas, most of which I never thought of. You ladies are amazing and I really appreciate the time you all took to respond to my question. I now have LOTS of ideas which I am sure I can use in the future.
I probably should have said what prompted the question in the first place. When my MIL passed, we had lots of flowers and asked if they could be donated to a nursing home or church where others could enjoy them. They said no because they already had too many so they just went to waste really except for those few minutes of the viewing. I found it sad really but I agree with what many have said that you have to follow your heart and do what you feel is right for that situation.
Thanks again for the replies! I think many will benefit from your ideas.
I probably should have said what prompted the question in the first place. When my MIL passed, we had lots of flowers and asked if they could be donated to a nursing home or church where others could enjoy them. They said no because they already had too many so they just went to waste really except for those few minutes of the viewing. I found it sad really but I agree with what many have said that you have to follow your heart and do what you feel is right for that situation.
Thanks again for the replies! I think many will benefit from your ideas.
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