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I Felt Very Judged: Quilt tops vs Finished quilts

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Old 09-30-2011, 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted by Jazzz
I have always had a creative outlet in my life: piano playing, oil painting, photography, scrapbooking, etc. What got me hooked into quilting was the beautiful fabric prints and what could be created by putting different ones together. What got me to DO quilting was the prospect of "A Quilt in a Day." So, my first few quilts were log cabins. After getting 5 other women in my office to take a sampler class with me, a whole new world opened up. My favorite pattern turned out to be the Mariner's Compass.

Fast forward to today and 3 kids later. In my house, you will mostly find just quilt tops hanging on my walls. I do have finished quilts that my family uses also but my true passion is in the designing and the challenge of the pattern. Maybe if I had a long-arm, I might follow thru with them more, but I find large quilts cumbersome to quilt. Added to that, my limited time was so precious that I didn't want to spend it wrestling!!!

Life took it's tole and quilting took a (way) back-burner till I got on this website. Needing money and not just giving my fabric away, I put what I could part with out at a recent garage sale. This one quilter came up and we started chatting. When I mentioned my quilt tops that were hanging, she looked at me with outright disdain and I knew whe was trying to invision the unfinished edges she asked about.

Maybe it's just because I've been through so much in the past few years, but I was really shocked at her reaction. I don't remember any other time in my quilting career when I've had such a feeling of judgment in that area. Maybe because I've lost all my quilting friends gradually over time. That's why I'm so grateful for this site.

I know many of you may agree with this lady. I do understand the "other side." My belief is to each his own. Thanks for letting me vent and for the help to work this through and be able to let it go.
First, shame on her - judging you! She must think Quilt Police are more than a figment of someone's imagination.

Second, what you do in your home, with your ART - is your business.

Third, you mentioned that you don't want to wrestle. Have you tried a Quilt As You Go technique? Or Leah Day recently talked about handling the weight of quilts, while using a domestic machine. Recently I posted about this:
http://www.quiltingboard.com/t-154465-1.htm
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Old 09-30-2011, 12:10 PM
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The word to use when someone makes an ignorant comment is "QUCH"! And then - QUCH!OUCH! OUCH!
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Old 09-30-2011, 12:22 PM
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Your house is your decorating castle! Mine has no ryhme or reason to how I decorate and I like to think that is part of the charm;) People can be very outspoken and rude even by their body language as you mentioned. It is because most people don't pause that split second to put themselves in another person's shoes before they open their mouth. Those people will always be there unfortunately, but folks like you, who can smile and not let them have the power to make you feel inferior, are the ones who make a difference in this world. Keep quilting and hanging your artwork:)
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Old 09-30-2011, 12:59 PM
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I like it. Thanks for giving me permission to hang my quilt tops. I am one who loves piecing and not the other part, so just put them away. I am going to bring them out and hang them. Lets start a new trend!
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Old 10-01-2011, 06:09 AM
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The Quilt Police have no authority in my home. The Quilt Police are nothing but bullies.
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:25 PM
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If you want them finished...you may be able to barter with someone who has the quilting machine. Trade one or two you don't really want to keep in exchange for them quilting your others for you. I say hang what you like...finished or not!
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