Bad Advice
When the instructor told us to reserve the border fabric before cutting the rest of the pieces. I botched about three yards of fabric by doing that - I tore off 'too much' and ruined the main design.
Anyone else have 'instructor advice' that you have since learned to ignore? |
I had someone once tell me "you won't get good results if you don't use LQS fabric". She was very wrong and I'm glad I ignored her.
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Yes , I have had someone tell me batiks don't run/bleed. I also had them tell me its best to use/cut cross grain , when clearly having stretch would pose a problem later. I have had them even tell me my almost vintage machine will never produce as good results as a newer machine.
I have learned over the years to filter! and yes my 40 years of quilting can be my most valuable asset in assessing what should be filtered. |
when receiving advice, filtering is most important whether you are receiving from an instructor or another quilter. i went to a batik block making class at my lqs. this one particular block that was to be cut from these strips we put together was not going to be totally square the way the instructor was trying to cut it. well she cut it before i had time to protest. of course my block is missing two corners. had i had a moment to think it through, i would have found another way to cut out block so that i would not be missing 2 corners that i now have to patch. she was a nice little old lady and the class only cost $5.00 so i went with it but it could have been cut better.
yes filtering is important.:thumbup: |
When someone says "Always.." or "Never...". I think there are different ways of doing almost everything. I ignore the instructors that say "Always press to the dark fabric". I usually press my seams open (gasp!) or away from the quilting design I have planned.
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I have seen a lot of people try to teach who are really not up to the task. I always try and logic things out for myself before I jump in to what someone else is telling me to do or how to think. Before taking advice or instructions always look to see if the work of the person giving it stands up to scrutiny.
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I've been sewing for about 50 years. I have always kept my iron's cord at the front of my ironing board, but I was told in the class I took earlier this year that I should ALWAYS keep it to the back so I don't trip on the cord. She said the ironed fabric should fall to the back of the ironing board and that way the cord won't wrinkle it again. Well, I haven't tripped over my iron's cord after 50 years, so it probably won't happen now, and she was doing everything just backwards from how I do it. I did as she asked in the class, but it ended there. In fact, my old iron's cord doesn't LIKE being twisted in the opposite direction it's used to being in.
Yes, you can teach an old dog new tricks, but only if they want to learn them! Common sense tells me this is a hot iron and I should be cautious around it! (I hope I never have to eat those words, but will be sure to post if that happens.) LOL! |
I had an instructor tell me "It will all work out in the quilting" When I got home, I took my top apart and started over. That was the only class I ever took. No way was the quilting going to fix that mess!!!
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Well it sounds like we are a bunch of rebels doesn't it? Sorry you ended up with a new addition to your scrap bin. The good news is....it will look good as the main fabric in a scrap quilt.
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You just have to do what works for you. I was a seamstress for many, many years, and old habits die hard. Because of this, I was accustomed to pressing all of my seams open. I have been nailed for this at every class I have taken since becoming a quilter. I don't like pressing to one side, I don't like nesting my seams, and I don't like stitching in the ditch all that much. I'm extremely careful to use 3 ply, strong cotton thread (Masterpiece 50# 3 ply) for my piecing, and carry the stitching to then end of each piece and lock it, so my seams don't come apart. I press the thread to "bury" it before I press it open. I like the way my tops lie flatter with open seams. More and more designers are pressing their seams open, like Bonnie Hunter. It works for me, I like it, stop harassing me, I'm sick of your lectures, and who made you the quilt police?
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Sometimes it is our interpretation of the directions and sometimes it is the way it is stated. Did the instructor know that you "tear" your fabric or did she assume that you just cut? Would the directions have been okay if you cut?
When I give directions/model something, I try to start with, "this is how I do it (and why); why not try it and see if it works for you." Classes are for learning and trying a new strategy/method and then self evaluating what works for you. |
I am always weary of a teacher that speaks in absolutes. Always do it this way, there is no other way, this is the best way, etc. There is more than one way to get the job done. I like to try new ways to get it done. But don't verbally slap my hand when I don't agree with what is said. I take classes to learn new techniques. I will try them and keep using them only if they make sense to me.
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Originally Posted by hopetoquilt
(Post 5311852)
Sometimes it is our interpretation of the directions and sometimes it is the way it is stated. Did the instructor know that you "tear" your fabric or did she assume that you just cut? Would the directions have been okay if you cut?
When I give directions/model something, I try to start with, "this is how I do it (and why); why not try it and see if it works for you." Classes are for learning and trying a new strategy/method and then self evaluating what works for you. NOW I start from the center out and hope for the best when I get to the borders. That usually works for me. That was almost 20 years ago - I've learned a couple of things since then - and have a lot more confidence in my own judgment than I did way back then. |
Originally Posted by MacThayer
(Post 5311840)
You just have to do what works for you. I was a seamstress for many, many years, and old habits die hard. Because of this, I was accustomed to pressing all of my seams open. I have been nailed for this at every class I have taken since becoming a quilter. I don't like pressing to one side, I don't like nesting my seams, and I don't like stitching in the ditch all that much. I'm extremely careful to use 3 ply, strong cotton thread (Masterpiece 50# 3 ply) for my piecing, and carry the stitching to then end of each piece and lock it, so my seams don't come apart. I press the thread to "bury" it before I press it open. I like the way my tops lie flatter with open seams. More and more designers are pressing their seams open, like Bonnie Hunter. It works for me, I like it, stop harassing me, I'm sick of your lectures, and who made you the quilt police?
I feel your pain. |
If I'm taking a workshop or class for a pattern the instructor designed and made herself then I'll do what she says. She knows the tips and hints for her pattern. If it is a general class with no technique involved then I do it the way it makes sense to me. I'm more of a make as desired type quilter.
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The best advice I ever got about anything was "Advice is like being passed a plate of cookies. Look it over. Take what you want and let the rest pass by". Also free advice is worth what you pay for it.
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Originally Posted by Connie M.
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The best advice I ever got about anything was "Advice is like being passed a plate of cookies. Look it over. Take what you want and let the rest pass by". Also free advice is worth what you pay for it.
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Originally Posted by hopetoquilt
(Post 5311852)
Sometimes it is our interpretation of the directions and sometimes it is the way it is stated. Did the instructor know that you "tear" your fabric or did she assume that you just cut? Would the directions have been okay if you cut?
When I give directions/model something, I try to start with, "this is how I do it (and why); why not try it and see if it works for you." Classes are for learning and trying a new strategy/method and then self evaluating what works for you. |
Originally Posted by jaciqltznok
(Post 5312091)
BINGO....I was going to say...it is not always what it is said, but often what is heard that is the issue...how one interprets things varies as greatly as the leaves on a tree!
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What I remember most was taking a class to make a particular patterened shirt. I has stated that ready made patterns rarely fit me and knew I would need fitting help. I was assured that I would get the help and the shirt would fit.
Well. It didn't. I had bought extra fabric to make matching shorts but ended up cutting into that fabric ... after the shirt didn't fit. Guess what? It still didn't fit! I do have some restrictions and need to do some things differently when sewing due to the arthritis. This affects my machine and quilting. Now I am particular about my needs and will challenge any LQS if I don't get what I ask for and will respectfully but determinedly ask for my money back. Somehow, now that I question more and am more explicit I have had no more problems. Yeah. ali |
I took a class today with Klaudeen Hansen in Oelwein IA. I can happily report she was great about different ways of doing things. I took a Vintage machine (Singer 301) no problems there. She presented the project with pressing SUGGESTIONS of some seams open some to one side. But she had no problems with the fact that I'm of the press them open persuasion. She said it wasn't necessary to press every seam as you go, but didn't pressure me because I like to press as I go. She is teaching some classes at the AQS Des Moines quilt show. If it weren't corn picking time I'd take another of her classes. I barely get time to go to the show as I drive the combine a lot of the time.
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Some "traditions" die hard. I think most of them are hanging around from the hand-piecing days. Seams are much stronger now, designs have changed. Do whatever gets a better product! (But please try to give your longarmer your best effort).
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I had one quilt shop owner tell me don't worry about cutting the squares & half squares 5 5/8. She said use 6' thangles and it would all be fine. NOT. The squares did not fit with the 1/2 squares at all. I'ts now taking up space in my closet. Needless to say, all the squares have been cut as well as the half squares.
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I used to do hand quilting for a lady who did books and a TV show about quilting - her seams were always pressed open. Her tops were the most precise I have ever seen.
I too take a deep breath when I hear people say Always and Never. I think there are just some people who like to lay down rules. |
So sorry that you were given advice that did not work for you. Advice is merely ideas or techniques that have worked for someone else, some advice is more universal than other advice. Yes, I am VERY opinionated BUT if I consider the source more knowledgeable than me, I am willing to try a their way. If it works for me then it was wonderful advice if it doesn't then I seek another method.
I have been very fortunate to receive advice that was extremely useful. As a beginner quilter, I have a lot to learn. When I took my beginner class, we were all novices and many had never quilted anything before. Each of us produced a quilt that were amazing - most blocks had all their points and our quilts were square. Definite proof that we had received excellent advice and had been taught great techniques. Her advice was based on her mistakes and her personal experiences. We have all signed up for her next class! |
There are usually several ways to accomplish the same thing. When I take a class, I always do it the instructor's way, but I may not do it like that again. I have developed my own likes and dislikes, but I do like to learn new techniques so I usually give it a chance.
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I was told at a Belle Point Quilt Guild meeting, by a man who was our speaker, and who had made 50 quilts in a year.....all from scraps he had or had been given him (he did not purchase any fabric for the quilts).....He told us, "There are no quilt police" and that we can do anything we wanted or could do while quilting!! That has been my mantra.....say it over and over, There are no quilt police.
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Originally Posted by lfletcher
(Post 5312498)
There are usually several ways to accomplish the same thing. When I take a class, I always do it the instructor's way, but I may not do it like that again. I have developed my own likes and dislikes, but I do like to learn new techniques so I usually give it a chance.
I would be forgiving in some ways too though - just because a teacher flubs up or does things differently doesn't mean that all they have to offer is without value. As said before - take what works for you and let the rest past by you. |
when I take a class I try the method that the teacher is teaching in class due to that being why I took the class was to learn. then if it works for me I use it if not I don't. I have learned some very usful tips from several teachers and when I am teaching a class I show students what works for me and then let the students do what works for them. I love taking classes and learning and I love teaching too.
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My thought is - if everyone did as they were told new techniques would never surface. I'm glad people try new things and think for themselves. If I've learned one thing in quilting it is that it's not a one size fits all.
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I've never taken a quilting class, just doing it on my own and reading. Sometimes I go with the instructions and sometimes in reading them, they just don't make sense to me. When that happens I usually try to take the time to do a trial with scraps to see if what I'm being told to do really works. Often it doesn't so I just do it the way it makes sense to me. We don't all think the same or sew the same so I'm all for doing it the way you do best! I think an instructor would just confuse me; my mom taught me to sew 45+years ago and she's has left-handed tendencies and I am right-handed all the way but I do some things left handed.
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Everyone, including teachers have their own way of doing things. The teacher is sharing what she recommends, but there may be other, better ways of making a quilt than what the teacher shares. I like the cookie analogy too...makes sense. You can always learn something new.
Especially for beginners a good teacher is so important....not good to get started out wrong. |
When I taught a PP class, I told the ladies, "this is the way I do it, but I will also show you some other ways to do it. Pick what works for you." It all came out good.
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I was told to reserve also...nope...if there isn't enough border/binding fabric left...I'll use something else, lol.
What I tell the folkls on the TinLizzieLongarm Yahoo Group is that there are as many ways to quilt as there are quilter's. There is no right or wrong way...just do what works for you. I know a lot of how I make quilts would make the quilt police faint...but I get my quilts done! Marge
Originally Posted by bearisgray
(Post 5310484)
When the instructor told us to reserve the border fabric before cutting the rest of the pieces. I botched about three yards of fabric by doing that - I tore off 'too much' and ruined the main design.
Anyone else have 'instructor advice' that you have since learned to ignore? |
I just cannot afford to pay for classes, so most of my "learning" is just trying or reading a book. sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Every quilt I make is a learning experience for me and I tell the recipient of the quilt that. So far no one complains and the non quilters say they don't even see what mistakes I am talking about. I guess I put enough love into my quilts to make up for the "oops" part of it. Most of my books come from thrift stores...
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I had an instructor who was very unprepared to deal with tips for my dealing with being left handed. She did not realize that everything can look backwards and that I had to do some things in a manner that seemed strange for her. Her advice was "just pretend that you are right handed and follow along with the instructions she gave. I never went back.
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Originally Posted by Lori S
(Post 5310688)
Yes , I have had someone tell me batiks don't run/bleed. I also had them tell me its best to use/cut cross grain , when clearly having stretch would pose a problem later. I have had them even tell me my almost vintage machine will never produce as good results as a newer machine.
I have learned over the years to filter! and yes my 40 years of quilting can be my most valuable asset in assessing what should be filtered. |
Originally Posted by Dakota Girl
(Post 5313474)
I had an instructor who was very unprepared to deal with tips for my dealing with being left handed. She did not realize that everything can look backwards and that I had to do some things in a manner that seemed strange for her. Her advice was "just pretend that you are right handed and follow along with the instructions she gave. I never went back.
I'd hate to think what my left handed sis would have told her! |
I made my first quilt from watching tutorials on YouTube and checking books out of the library. My grandmother had taught me to quilt when I was young girl, but I had never pieced before and was a bit apprehensive about that. I mean,it had been close to 50 yrs. since I had quilted. My first effort came out respectable enough, but I decided to take a class at my LQS soon after. WOW!. I learned so much. The teacher was great and I had so much fun. I wish I had had the tips and techniques she taught me when I made my first quilt. Perhaps I would not have struggled so much. I look forward to taking more classes as time and money allow. Unfortunately, she has moved across country, but we'll see what the next teacher has to offer.
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A gal at the LQS told me that my color choices would not work for the pattern I had. Stupid me (newbee) allowed her to talk me into a "safe" color. I never finished that quilt because it was sooooo boring. Same LQS different person asked me if I was planning to use "all those" colors on the same quilt? Of course I was. She asked me if I planned to name the quilt "Nightmare on Elmstreet?" What a b****. This time I stuck to my guns and it turned out the way I imagined. That LQS went out of business. I wonder why!
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