my better half is the chilly one so we have two large throw sized quilts that I made for him for the bed, he is very tall so they are 80" long but only 45" wide. I have the sheet and a very light throw on my side, he has the sheet and his quilts. It works well. In the winter we also have a dual zone electric blanket and he has his side on 7 and I have mine off or on the lowest setting. Some winters we don't bother though, we have very short mild winters.

Special thanks to those of you that spoke about the wool. I am heading in that direction but still stewing on it. Thanks for the other ideas. Guess I should also ask my husband for his input:D

A common problem with many solutions. Our biggest problem is the summer time. I like to be well covered and husband doesn't. Fold the blanket double over me-works for us.