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Lavada 07-30-2011 02:16 PM

rght one i do not like guilds not because of critizem but i like this qb better thanks moderators

quiltymom 07-30-2011 02:42 PM

So sad that someone would be hurtful!! As they say what goes around comes around!!!!

megs0863 07-30-2011 02:43 PM

Some people need a lesson on etiquette and communication skills.

Bonnie P 07-30-2011 02:47 PM

I have come across a few snobby quilters myself and they shouldn't be allowed to continue to belong to a group or work in the quilt shops.

Darlene 07-30-2011 02:49 PM

I wouldn't show something at any meeting no matter what. The guilds around here are not known to be friendly. I am my own worst critic. Maybe in a few years I could show something I felt was good enough.

Deezie 07-30-2011 03:21 PM

ouch is right, it probably took a lot of courage for that person to stand up in the first place. Now that she had that happen I doubt she'll have the courage to do it again. I attended a quilter guild in my home town once and was not treated with any warmth. I sat up front and nobody sat next to me or even near me, felt weird and I've not gone back.

Candela59 07-30-2011 03:42 PM

Those darn quilt police...never know where they'll show up! I've been on the receiving end of that kind of discouragement and it isn't pleasant. Shame on them!

chamby 07-30-2011 03:42 PM

This is why I am not part of a formal guild.

CAS49OR 07-30-2011 03:49 PM

I saw this happen at BOTM meet. A friend of mine pointed out that the LQS owner had missed her points in a couple of places. Oh my! She had just started quilting herself.

marymm 07-30-2011 04:27 PM

I'm truly shocked at this. I was in charge of Show and Tell for my guild for two years and I never saw a quilt that needed criticism. It is so easy to say nice things without being condescending. I personally would have gone to the victim, asked to see her quilt and then told her that I thought she did a good job, maybe in color choice, maybe in pattern, but in something.


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