I have a friend who makes beautiful quilts. We share our "show and tell" and she expects high praise. If she doesn't get it, she lets you know. When I show my projects I am often disappointed to get an "Oh, that's nice" or "Oh that's cute". Very unenthusiastic. My quilts are nice, neat, and would certainly keep any one warm. I am a traditional quilter. At any rate, I don't want this to affect our friendship, however, it is very disappointing to me when I give her high praise and lots of "oooo's and ahhhhh's" and I get this flat, "Oh, uh-huh". Any advice?

I think I'd quit showing her my quilts. If her opinion made me sad, I wouldn't listen to it any more.

Thanks, I think you're right. Definition of insane? Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results?? Thanks!!

I agree that if she does not appreciate your quilts then simply don't share. Plus you should be more honest with your reply, no extra oohs and aahhs then you feel. I have a feeling that she appreciates your traditional quilts more than she is willing to say, maybe she is jelous. If you have a strong friendship share your feelings with her, if it's a newer not so strong yet relationship then just share your quilts with us, we will give you the deserved enthusiasm. Let us know the outcome, and good luck.

If you show us your quilts, I bet you'll get PLENTY of oohs and ahhhhs. We appreciate all styles of quilting.

You just quoted something very wise from Alanon!! :thumbup:

I concur. The only opinion that is truly important for your items is you. Don't let this affect the friendship; just don't share your joyful creations.

There is a woman that comes to my regular sew day group that is like that. Everyone seems to droop a little when she walks in the door.

I agree- We love to see pics and will enjoy them :thumbup: As for the friend realize that it will probably always be a one way street.

This is a friend???? Not in my dictionary. This is a competitor who has to come out on top or else. At least in quilting.

I'd be curious as to how others relate to her.

ali