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Roberta 10-29-2010 08:46 AM

I bought a Singer model 99 sewing machine in a cabinet that I loved at a local antique store. Since it needed work, I sent it to a person on EBay that sold me my Featherweight. He told me he was going to exchange my machine for one that was already refurbished if I didn't mind. As long as it was the same machine I had no problem with that. Now to get to the problem and my need for advice. The machine didn't arrive when he said it would. After waiting a few days we contacted him via EBay since he has a "store" on there. A few days later I received an email from his son saying he had major heart surgery but his son would send out my machine. Ok thus far :wink:

When the machine arrived it doesn't work. The wires going into the machine are bare, one isn't even attached to the machine, etc. I paid him $135 to refurbish this machine plus shipping and I got back a machine that can't be used. I paid through my PayPal account but this was a month or so ago since I was waiting for him to respond to my numerous phone calls and emails.

I feel guilty compaining to PayPal about this transaction since I know he has been ill and may not even be with us but I also can't afford to throw away $135 on a machine that doesn't work.

My question, sorry this was so long, what would you do.

Murphy 10-29-2010 08:47 AM

File a complaint.

Grama Lehr 10-29-2010 08:55 AM

I agree, file a complaint.

wolfkitty 10-29-2010 08:59 AM

Definitely, file a complaint! He shouldn't have switched them. I think he should have fixed yours and returned it. It's possible the son sent the wrong one, too. But, anyway, file a complaint.

mommamac 10-29-2010 09:20 AM

you need to file a complaint before this happens to someone else

oatw13 10-29-2010 09:26 AM

Please, file the complaint before too much time goes by.

You only have the word of an email from his "son" that he has been ill. Maybe he has, maybe he hasn't. Maybe he fell on hard times himself or damaged your machine or didn't have one to send you. You don't really know. I hope he is okay, but with online transactions, you need to protect yourself first. Especially if no one will return a phone call or email.

Debo 10-29-2010 09:32 AM

You need to file a complaint with PayPal. They will refund your money until the problem is taken care through them. That's one of the advantages of paying through them.

amma 10-29-2010 09:41 AM

Have you corresponded with this seller letting them know that you are not happy with this trade? I think PayPal/ebay requires you to allow the seller to try and make good on the transaction first.
Then if they don't, you have the right (and should) contact PayPal for reimbursement.

Even if Dad is incapacitated, he still has a responsibility to his sellers. So yes, do follow through to either get a working machine or a refund.

ckcowl 10-29-2010 09:44 AM

contact paypal. the family of the man should be taking care of things in his absence and although we all know (life happens) that does not mean you should be taken advantage of...or ripped off. I would also send the son a copy of the correspondence you had with his dad, and let them know that what you received is not acceptable. but after contacting him (who knows he may just refund your money himself) then contact paypal, and also remember to put the feedback on the ebay...contact them too. if he has a store they should be notified there is a problem

Originally Posted by Roberta
I bought a Singer model 99 sewing machine in a cabinet that I loved at a local antique store. Since it needed work, I sent it to a person on EBay that sold me my Featherweight. He told me he was going to exchange my machine for one that was already refurbished if I didn't mind. As long as it was the same machine I had no problem with that. Now to get to the problem and my need for advice. The machine didn't arrive when he said it would. After waiting a few days we contacted him via EBay since he has a "store" on there. A few days later I received an email from his son saying he had major heart surgery but his son would send out my machine. Ok thus far :wink:

When the machine arrived it doesn't work. The wires going into the machine are bare, one isn't even attached to the machine, etc. I paid him $135 to refurbish this machine plus shipping and I got back a machine that can't be used. I paid through my PayPal account but this was a month or so ago since I was waiting for him to respond to my numerous phone calls and emails.

I feel guilty compaining to PayPal about this transaction since I know he has been ill and may not even be with us but I also can't afford to throw away $135 on a machine that doesn't work.

My question, sorry this was so long, what would you do.


featherweight 10-29-2010 09:46 AM

Paypal will not put up with unsatified custmers. Please file the complaint. If you don't he may do the same thing to another great quilter. Please let us know the outcome of your problem..

KathyAire 10-29-2010 09:47 AM

File your complaint NOW. Maybe the son is the one that sent the wrong one. If so, it should be easy to make it right, but not at your expense. Get it documented as soon as possible.

Quiltforme 10-29-2010 10:56 AM

you really never know who you are dealing with on the other end of ebay you need to file a complaint and get the process started if this is legit the person will fix the problem or refund you the money with the item shipped back!

quilter on the eastern edge 10-29-2010 11:15 AM

File the complaint and get everyting settled to your satisfaction. Otherwise you are just throwing away $135.00 - just think of the fabric you can buy with that!

Roberta 10-29-2010 11:29 AM

I thank you all for your advice. I have just filed a complaint with PayPal but not sure they will be able to do anything because it's been past the 45 days. That's what I get for trying to be nice about this and waiting until the seller got back on his feet. Now I may be out the $138, thought it was only $135 but upon checking the transaction I realized it was more.

I felt bad about filing a complaint until I received all your comments. He still has listings on EBay and I feel badly for people who order through that site right now. We went to him directly since I had his website so EBay wouldn't be able to help although he does list "refurbished machines" for $125 on there.

Thanks again folks. Live and learn I guess but at my age you would think I'd know better.

mhansen6 10-29-2010 11:40 AM

You can also file a complaint with ebay. They will look into the problem. You shouldn't be stuck with a machine that doesn't work.

Dingle 10-29-2010 11:47 AM


Originally Posted by Roberta
I thank you all for your advice. I have just filed a complaint with PayPal but not sure they will be able to do anything because it's been past the 45 days. That's what I get for trying to be nice about this and waiting until the seller got back on his feet. Now I may be out the $138, thought it was only $135 but upon checking the transaction I realized it was more.

I felt bad about filing a complaint until I received all your comments. He still has listings on EBay and I feel badly for people who order through that site right now. We went to him directly since I had his website so EBay wouldn't be able to help although he does list "refurbished machines" for $125 on there.

Thanks again folks. Live and learn I guess but at my age you would think I'd know better.

Did you pay through Pay-Pal using a major CC? If you did, you can file with you CC company. When I use Pay-Pal I always use a major CC for just this reason.

HTH

featherweight 10-29-2010 12:13 PM

I am sure that with the circumstances of him being hospitalized that Paypal or Ebay will allow more time for the filing. I have done a whole lot of business with ebay and never got stung. I did however get stung on Overstock.com, That is another story!!!

justwannaquilt 10-29-2010 12:39 PM

Is this the same guy you bought the featherweight from and had a nightmare with?

featherweight 10-29-2010 01:01 PM


Originally Posted by justwannaquilt
Is this the same guy you bought the featherweight from and had a nightmare with?

Not me.

Jingle 10-29-2010 01:32 PM

There should be some recourse, I've not bought from ebay.

littlehud 10-29-2010 06:55 PM

You need to file a complain and let pay pal take care of it. If nothing else you need your original machine back and your money refunded.

grann of 6 10-30-2010 03:17 AM


Originally Posted by oatw13
Please, file the complaint before too much time goes by.

You only have the word of an email from his "son" that he has been ill. Maybe he has, maybe he hasn't. Maybe he fell on hard times himself or damaged your machine or didn't have one to send you. You don't really know. I hope he is okay, but with online transactions, you need to protect yourself first. Especially if no one will return a phone call or email.

Maybe he was just a dishonest person trying to cheat you out of a good machine and into a bad one. That is why I won't do business that way. I want to meet the repairperson and know he is honest. I don't trust e-bay or any of those website places.

finch 10-30-2010 03:37 AM

I have had to file complaints with Ebay before and they are so great about taking care of the problem.They will help you.

ktmo815 10-30-2010 03:50 AM

definately file a complaint with ebay also. you should be protected.

quilt3311 10-30-2010 04:05 AM

File a complaint, maybe explain that it isn't because of his work as he had a heart issue, but the person returning your machine evidently didn't realize it had not been fixed. That should not black ball him as most understand he was not the one who returned your machine. If he survived the heart problem, he will probably want to make it right when he is well.

mmlctnp 10-30-2010 04:13 AM

For $135 for heavens sake file a complaint. Circumstances happen. His son probably didn't know anything about arrangements or expectations, plus being worried about his dad. Maybe his son doesn't know one sewing machine from another. Pay pay and E-bay are usually most helpful in cases like this. But you have to speak up. I believe there are time limits.

SLHughes 10-30-2010 04:22 AM

Roberta ...

Hope all works out well with this issue. I would also file a complaint.

Hugs

cafegold2 10-30-2010 04:38 AM

Check to see if this was covered by EBay policy.

LindaR 10-30-2010 05:01 AM


Originally Posted by Roberta
I bought a Singer model 99 sewing machine in a cabinet that I loved at a local antique store. Since it needed work, I sent it to a person on EBay that sold me my Featherweight. He told me he was going to exchange my machine for one that was already refurbished if I didn't mind. As long as it was the same machine I had no problem with that. Now to get to the problem and my need for advice. The machine didn't arrive when he said it would. After waiting a few days we contacted him via EBay since he has a "store" on there. A few days later I received an email from his son saying he had major heart surgery but his son would send out my machine. Ok thus far :wink:

When the machine arrived it doesn't work. The wires going into the machine are bare, one isn't even attached to the machine, etc. I paid him $135 to refurbish this machine plus shipping and I got back a machine that can't be used. I paid through my PayPal account but this was a month or so ago since I was waiting for him to respond to my numerous phone calls and emails.

I feel guilty compaining to PayPal about this transaction since I know he has been ill and may not even be with us but I also can't afford to throw away $135 on a machine that doesn't work.

My question, sorry this was so long, what would you do.

contact P/P right away....don't settle, demand your machine back plus all shipping costs...its not the guys fault but the son didn't do him any favors ruining his reputation...gee whiz..don't settle.

jcrilley 10-30-2010 05:09 AM


Originally Posted by Roberta
I bought a Singer model 99 sewing machine in a cabinet that I loved at a local antique store. Since it needed work, I sent it to a person on EBay that sold me my Featherweight. He told me he was going to exchange my machine for one that was already refurbished if I didn't mind. As long as it was the same machine I had no problem with that. Now to get to the problem and my need for advice. The machine didn't arrive when he said it would. After waiting a few days we contacted him via EBay since he has a "store" on there. A few days later I received an email from his son saying he had major heart surgery but his son would send out my machine. Ok thus far :wink:

When the machine arrived it doesn't work. The wires going into the machine are bare, one isn't even attached to the machine, etc. I paid him $135 to refurbish this machine plus shipping and I got back a machine that can't be used. I paid through my PayPal account but this was a month or so ago since I was waiting for him to respond to my numerous phone calls and emails.

I feel guilty compaining to PayPal about this transaction since I know he has been ill and may not even be with us but I also can't afford to throw away $135 on a machine that doesn't work.

My question, sorry this was so long, what would you do.

I would question in my mind whether he even had the health problem or not, but that's just me. I would definitely contact both him, Ebay and Paypal and file a complaint.

jemcnutt 10-30-2010 05:17 AM

ABSOLUTELY


Originally Posted by Murphy
File a complaint.


rosiew55 10-30-2010 06:19 AM

Ebay will try to make it right for you. I won an auction on a serger( i love it) but when it arrived the thread guide was broken and the plastic cover for the motor. I repaired the serger myself and eBay ( or the seller) gave me back HALF of the cost! Serger works like new and I was so happy the eBay was so prompt to help me. Good luck.
sorry so long here. Have a great weekend, rosie

skothing 10-30-2010 06:31 AM


Originally Posted by Murphy
File a complaint.

Ditto

pieces 10-30-2010 06:43 AM

File a complaint, and never do business with him again.
I would never have sent him my machine in the first place.
Surely their is someone local that repairs machines.
With locals you have more control over the work,
especially if the work isn't done properly. And you don't pay until the work is done to your satisfaction.
Hope it all works out for you.

amandasgramma 10-30-2010 07:00 AM

Keep after him. In these days, people have heart surgery and are on their computers within weeks. He should've responded....he's ripped you off. At first I thought the son didn't know what dad was supposed to do....but I'm thinking this is a scam. We don't want anyone else to be ripped off like this!

MaggieLou 10-30-2010 07:35 AM

File a complaint. You have no way of knowing whether the owner was sick or not. He may be a reputable dealer but there are too many instances of fraud on the internet. PayPal will refund your money until the matter is settled.

Up4BigChal 10-30-2010 07:46 AM

File a complaint but explain the reason.

grannypat7925 10-30-2010 07:49 AM

Definitely file a complaint! Reading about this kind of stuff is what keeps me from buying anything on ebay.

SaraSewing 10-30-2010 07:52 AM

complain to ebay AND to the better business bureau in his state. From now on, go local! His problem doesn't need to by your problem too. A repututable store will get someone else to get the job done when he can't. It's a scam.

patdesign 10-30-2010 08:12 AM


Originally Posted by Roberta
I bought a Singer model 99 sewing machine in a cabinet that I loved at a local antique store. Since it needed work, I sent it to a person on EBay that sold me my Featherweight. He told me he was going to exchange my machine for one that was already refurbished if I didn't mind. As long as it was the same machine I had no problem with that. Now to get to the problem and my need for advice. The machine didn't arrive when he said it would. After waiting a few days we contacted him via EBay since he has a "store" on there. A few days later I received an email from his son saying he had major heart surgery but his son would send out my machine. Ok thus far :wink:

When the machine arrived it doesn't work. The wires going into the machine are bare, one isn't even attached to the machine, etc. I paid him $135 to refurbish this machine plus shipping and I got back a machine that can't be used. I paid through my PayPal account but this was a month or so ago since I was waiting for him to respond to my numerous phone calls and emails.

I feel guilty compaining to PayPal about this transaction since I know he has been ill and may not even be with us but I also can't afford to throw away $135 on a machine that doesn't work.

My question, sorry this was so long, what would you do.

File with paypal NOW before it is too late, and send a note to the ebay seller that you are doing so AFTER the complailnt is filed. While this is probably an honest mixup you need to file so that it can be sorted out. You should get a working machine or your money returned and you should not have to spend anything to send the non working one back.


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