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08-18-2011, 06:21 PM
#152
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Originally Posted by frarose
That is so sad. Yes, I would definitely call and make sure they arrived. But, since your gifts don't get acknowledged, I am of the mindset that you should no longer send gifts of any sort. If gifts aren't even acknowledged whether made or bought apparently they aren't appreciated.
Bye the way I LOVE the quilts, they are beautiful.
Bye the way I LOVE the quilts, they are beautiful.
08-18-2011, 06:25 PM
#154
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It happens..I make a baby quilt for the first baby of a family, if a thank you comes back or at least " a we got it " then the second baby in that family Gets one. A niece hinted at what she wanted for the second one but since I never knew they got the first I did not respond. It might not be the right way..but it is my way!!
08-18-2011, 06:33 PM
#156
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These are lovely gifts.
I am sure you did not expect anything 'in return' but a 'Thank You' is a natural response and the least you should expect. When you give a gift you also reach out to the recipient showing your love, respect and appreciation. Not thanking you is like refusing an outstretched hand. It probably feels like it too.
My nephew and niece behaved just like yours. Finally, I decided to bring Christmas presents to a family shelter instead. I was sitting on the floor helping a little one with a toy when all of a sudden sticky little arms almost choked me and I got a huge wet kiss.
Being grateful is not learned, it's natural and it does nurture human interactions both ways. It has nothing to do with 'payment' or 'returns'.
I am sure you did not expect anything 'in return' but a 'Thank You' is a natural response and the least you should expect. When you give a gift you also reach out to the recipient showing your love, respect and appreciation. Not thanking you is like refusing an outstretched hand. It probably feels like it too.
My nephew and niece behaved just like yours. Finally, I decided to bring Christmas presents to a family shelter instead. I was sitting on the floor helping a little one with a toy when all of a sudden sticky little arms almost choked me and I got a huge wet kiss.
Being grateful is not learned, it's natural and it does nurture human interactions both ways. It has nothing to do with 'payment' or 'returns'.
08-18-2011, 06:49 PM
#157
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Location: Neuquen - Argentina
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Originally Posted by Kehoeta
I'm sorry your feelings are hurt - but some people just don't get it.
Your gifts are lovely.
Take pride in your job well done and gift freely. It will come back to you - but maybe not from your family.
Your gifts are lovely.
Take pride in your job well done and gift freely. It will come back to you - but maybe not from your family.
These things happen in all families!
Call to ensure it was delivered and say nothing more!
And next ... make their quilts for people who will appreciate the love and work put into them!
Now ... eat a chocolate and smile! Please!
I send a big hug!
08-18-2011, 06:52 PM
#158
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Location: Central Florida
Posts: 1,465
Originally Posted by goosepoint
I think both are fantastic. In the future I would send a nice card and a pack of coupons from McDonalds or Burger King with a note that you hope they enjoy every one. :o) Never Never piss off a quilter :o)
08-18-2011, 07:05 PM
#160
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Location: Salt Lake City, Utah
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Lois, I'm sorry you feel bad, you shouldn't. Your intentions and your love for your family are crystal clear. Some people still think that we sew to make things cheaper than what we could buy them for. (Like during the olden days) They don't realize that good quilting fabric is expensive and our time is valuable too. But let's face it, we love to make quilts. We love to wrap people, both literally and figuratively in the warmth of our love.
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