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    Old 02-10-2011, 02:22 AM
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    Yep return it and tell her why.
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    Old 02-10-2011, 02:31 AM
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    she's no friend......she is a user. You don't need her in your life........return the quilt.
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    Old 02-10-2011, 02:35 AM
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    Originally Posted by hospicenurse
    she's no friend......she is a user. You don't need her in your life........return the quilt.
    Well said!
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    Old 02-10-2011, 03:11 AM
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    In agreement to many of the suggestions all I can add is"JUST SAY NO"
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    Old 02-10-2011, 03:18 AM
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    Originally Posted by PaperPrincess
    I would tell her that after 2 years you've learned a lot and "This is a twin size quilt and I do not feel comfortable with quilting this size on my home machine", then give her the name of a long arm quilter in your area. She (he) can let her know if it's not quiltable, and she will also get an idea of the real cost of quilting.
    I totally agree with Paper Princess.
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    Old 02-10-2011, 03:25 AM
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    Originally Posted by Snorky Lvs2Quilt
    I think she owes you half of what she sold it for....at least. Since 90 percent of the fabric was yours and you also have to provide the backing and batting plus do all the quilting/thread and you did a lot of the cutting, this quilt is more yours than hers. Tell her what she needs to do in order to make sure it is in the right condition to be able to quilt it. If I were you, I would even tell her how much fabric SHE needs to buy for the backing and also the batting.
    I don't understand this part....why are you buying the backing and batting?????

    The way I see it, that quilt is 90% yours (stash fabrics, batting, backing and quilting - viola a quilt)
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    Old 02-10-2011, 03:32 AM
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    I would consider the fabric she used that was from your stash as a "learning loss". I would return the quilt to her with her deposit and tell her exactly why you cannot and will not quilt it and consider that you got out fairly cheaply from a nasty situation. I doubt that she will be a bother any more and your mind will be at rest, knowing you were taken, but only by a little and that the situation is at an end for you. Peace of mind is invaluable.
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    Old 02-10-2011, 03:41 AM
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    Originally Posted by merry
    Return the quilt to your "friend" & tell her you can't quilt it with your present machine. Suggest a LQS & let them deal with her.
    I agree with you! Edie
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    Old 02-10-2011, 03:42 AM
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    Originally Posted by Scissor Queen
    Are you out of your mind? You put 90% of the fabric in, did the cutting, you have to BUY the backing and batting and pay for the quilting and SHE'S going to get the $400????

    Seriously???
    I agree. Some friend. You are way too generous.
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    Old 02-10-2011, 03:43 AM
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    Ditto. With all of the above, quilting is fun and rewarding. This situation does NOT fit the Criteria!
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